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Old Fashioned Movie Review

OFDVD_300x250bannerEver since a friend from church told me about “Old Fashioned” the new movie that came out in theaters in February, I have been dying to see it. I practically had the trailer memorized having watched it so many times, and last night, I finally got to watch it! Below, you’ll find Paul and I’s review, but first, I wanted to share a bit about this movie with you. (FYI – it came out on DVD today!)

About Old Fashioned

A romantic-drama, OLD FASHIONED centers on Clay Walsh, a former frat boy who gives up his reckless carousing and now runs an antique shop in a small Midwestern college town. There, he has become notorious for his lofty and outdated theories on love and romance as well as for his devout belief in God. When Amber Hewson, a free-spirited young woman with a restless soul, drifts into the area and rents the apartment above his shop, she finds herself surprisingly drawn to his strong faith and noble ideas, which are new and intriguing to her. And Clay, though he tries to fight and deny it, simply cannot resist being attracted to her spontaneous and passionate embrace of life. Ultimately, Clay must step out from behind his relational theories and Amber must overcome her own fears and deep wounds as the two of them, together, attempt the impossible: an “old-fashioned” and God-honoring courtship in contemporary America. 

Our Review

We watched this movie last night as a family. My mom is here visiting, so she watched it with us. While this movie is rated PG-13, it was portrait as a good old-fashioned romance. Before I get to my thoughts on the movie, let me share some of the other comments it received:

“Slow-paced, but in a good way.” (My mom)

“Really good.” (Our 12-year old son who didn’t understand a lot of what was going on)

“I LOVED IT!!! I probably watch it a second time in the morning.” (The friend who originally told me about it)

And Paul was excited to see how they tied everything together, and said they exceeded his expectations.

So what did I think?

I’m still sorting through my thoughts on this. I don’t think this is a very good family film as it’s really geared more towards young adults. Originally I wanted to pass it on to my mother-in-law, but after watching it I wasn’t sure that was such a good idea, however my friend is going to buy her own copy to watch with her young adult children.

In My Own Words

Old Fashioned is a film about a man committed to Christ, and a woman running from life.

While Clay Walsh struggles to live-out his commitment, he thinks he is unworthy because of his past. In the midst of his struggle, Amber rents the apartment above his shop and does everything in her power to test his convictions. Somehow he finds that endearing and falls in love with her. Obviously, he also found it a bit disconcerting, but puts the blame on himself instead of her.

Amber admires Clay’s old-fashioned ways. Even if her friends think he’s a whack job. Clay’s friends have issues of their own, but encourage his relationship with Amber.

While I know strippers, pornography, and discussing sexual parters is part of modern day, I didn’t expect them to be so prevalent in this old-fashioned movie. While it doesn’t show anything inappropriate, there is a ton of sex talk, and a lot of other innuendo and such that is implied. Had I realized how much of that was in the film, I would not have chosen it for a family film, but all of that was left out of the trailer, blurb, etc.

But don’t take my word for it, you can watch the trailer for yourself below, and pick up your copy of this DVD from PureFlix or Amazon. As I said, I am the only one who didn’t think this movie was outstanding. 4 out of 5 loved it.

Full Disclosure: I received a free copy of this DVD from Propeller Consulting LLC in exchange for posting an honest review.



Kirk Cameron’s Saving Christmas (Review)

Paul and I recently had the opportunity to preview Kirk Cameron’s new movie, Saving Christmas. Before I get into my review, I should first note that I have followed Kirk for years. I was a huge fan of Growing Pains as a child and love all the work he is doing for Christ.

However, I should also note that I’m a firm believer that we shouldn’t just try to keep Christ in Christmas, but instead keep Christmas about Christ. I completely agreed with Kirk’s statement in the movie that everything in our homes at Christmas time should point to Christ.

We just disagree on how that all works…

About the Movie

From the producers…

This Christmas, have your family join with Kirk Cameron’s family and dive headfirst into all the joy, dancing, celebration, feasting, imagination, and traditions that glorify the true “reason for the season.” KIRK CAMERON’S SAVING CHRISTMAS is an engaging story that provides a biblical basis for our time-honored traditions and celebrations, and the inspiration to stand strongly against a culture that wants to trivialize and eliminate the faith elements of this holy season. So take in the splendor; take in the majesty; take in the story. Take it all in… and let’s put Christ back in Christmas! KIRK CAMERON’S SAVING CHRISTMAS is in theaters for a limited engagement beginning November 14 for two weeks only!

Official Website: 

Our Review

In Saving Christmas, Kirk Cameron suggested that when we see a Christmas tree, we see an empty cross. And when we see an empty cross, we see the swaddling clothes that held Jesus as an infant, but couldn’t hold him in the grave. It’s a beautiful picture, however I don’t see it. That’s not what I see when I look at those things, and it’s not what the rest of the world sees either.

What really bothered me about this movie was that Cameron suggested that if you don’t take part in the Christmas “spirit” then you are a jerk. I think that’s pretty cocky. Don’t get me wrong, I LOVE Christmas. I love celebrating the birth of my Savior (and yes, I know He wasn’t really born in December). However, there are ways to keep Christmas about Christ that make much more sense then the ones suggested in the film.

Let’s take a step back though…

Saving Christmas is set during a Christmas party at Kirk Cameron’s sister’s home. Everybody is having a blast and Kirk is in the spotlight. Eventually, he corners his sister in the kitchen and asks about her husband. She says he’s doing fine, but Cameron presses her and she breaks down, saying he’s just not that into Christmas this year.

Apparently, that’s a huge offense, so Cameron goes looking for him and finds him sitting in the driveway in the car. That’s where they start talking about all things Christmas. Starting off with the nativity, the beloved Christmas decoration that everyone knows is about Christ. Which Cameron says is wrong. He pokes holes in the nativity scene and eventually says that you shouldn’t look at the manger, but the swaddling cloths. Because they are the most important part. Adding in something about the nativity missing the soldiers that were hunting to kill baby Jesus.

This was a huge revelation to his brother-in-law.

However, there are so many uncertainties about the timeline of the nativity story, that I know not everyone would agree with Kirk’s assessment. And honestly, I don’t think that’s the point at all. We shouldn’t look at the nativity as exactly what happened, it’s just a gentle reminder of the reason for the season.

I guess we just didn’t follow Kirk’s line of thought. The conversations he had with his brother-in-law were completely out there and they portrait his brother-in-law as a nut. Not a logical person who had logical complaints about Christmas.

After the nativity, they talked about the Christmas tree being a reminder of the cross (because crosses are made out of trees). And of course, the movie wouldn’t have been complete without the defense of Santa Clause, or St. Nick.

Which brings me to a huge point. This movie is NOT family friendly. The fight scene with St. Nicolas wasn’t something I would let my kids watch. It was brutal and completely out of context. In Paul’s words, “They said he smite him on the cheek, not beat him to a pulp.”

Anyone who knows us knows that we don’t do Santa in our house. Our kids know about St. Nick, but they also know that St. Nicolas Day is December 6th. December 25th is set aside for the celebration of our Savior’s birth, not the celebration of a saint. Including the celebration of St. Nicolas does not point to Christ, but takes away the focus.

Cameron can call me a nut or jerk or whatever other unloving word he can think of, but I will stick by our Christmas celebration. It works for us. It’s fun. We can joyfully celebrate our Savior’s birth without buying into the whole Santa thing.

Saving Christmas won’t Save Christmas.

I know Cameron meant well with this movie. But it was hard to follow and really didn’t provide any logical defense for Christmas. Saving Christmas won’t save Christmas. It won’t help people keep Christ as the center of their holidays. In fact, I believe it will confuse many and lead others to continue celebrating the holiday in a secular way while believing everything is perfect just because Kirk Cameron says so.

Overall, I thought this movie made a mockery of the season. Paul didn’t even want to finish watching it (and he has been excited about it coming out ever since he heard about it). We were really disappointed as we had hoped it would be so much more. There are ways that Christmas trees can honor Christ, but looking at something and calling it something else isn’t the way to do it. I know there are families that use a Santa like figure to point towards Christ, but the historic St. Nick doesn’t belong in the nativity scene.

So no, Saving Christmas won’t save Christmas in a Christian sense. However, it might save Santa, Christmas trees, and guilt for some people who know the way they use these things doesn’t point towards Christ, but they are unwilling to give them up. People who are looking for any excuse not to honor God with their whole hearts this Christmas.

We were very disappointed in Saving Christmas and won’t be recommending this movie to anyone.


Don’t want to take our word for it?

Check out Focus on the Family’s review of this film here:

They put it in a pretty perspective, but give more detail on Kirk’s examples. They present the facts without the criticism.


Full disclosure: I was allowed to preview this movie by FlyByPromotions (hopefully they won’t boot me from their review program after reading my review).